A text to a husband who has given up on his wife

A husband who no longer tells his wife he loves her because his reason is; She snaps at him and doesn’t show him love.

Her reason is; She feels her husband lets her down, isn’t there for her emotionally and gets frustrated at her forgetfulness known as Mum Brain.

This is her response to him after he claims she’s too busy being a devoted mother to their beautiful children and has put him on the back burner…

You hate everything I do or say!!! You legit hate me!!! I’m supposed to not stick up for myself when you call me stupid??? Or when I ask if you can take the kids and you say “oh I was going to go to bed or I was going to eat” you say I’m so devoted to our beautiful children but you’re on the back burner? You’ve put me on the back burner and I’m burnt out!!! While I am “devoted to our beautiful children” I can’t possibly find time to cater to you when I don’t even have time to cater to myself! Self care is zero right now. I have 2 children that require 24/7 supervision, care and needs. I have NOBODY to help me with feeds, naps nothing. My body has a bazillion hormones swooshing through my body, female hormones, birth hormones & breastfeeding hormones. On top of them swooshing around I’m expected to do the work of 10 people, never “clocking off” don’t get regular lunch breaks, i eat with 1 hand, shit with a baby or toddler on me and I’m supposed to be the one that puts in the energy to make this work? Or I’m supposed to not be a crazy lady when you say “oh I forgot Im not allowed to do anything” You know why it’s not hard for you to stay? Cause you don’t have to question my love! You stay because I express myself. You said I’ve never made you feel the way your ex made you feel. I question how you feel always because you never tell me so what am I supposed to do guess??? I have only your actions to judge by and your actions are. “I know you haven’t slept in 2 days but I’m going to bed. I’ve got work in the morning and you don’t” You’re care factor is ZERO about me! I fucking love you that much that I would NEVER make you get up of a night to feed the kids, I put myself through severe sleep deprivation so you can have adequate sleep. Thank you Michelle thank you said no one ever! You read these bullshit articles and accuse me of not loving you enough. I love you too much and not myself and I need to start loving me again and taking care of me because I can’t crash and burn because if I do I’ll get in trouble for you having to take time off work…